I Pray My Wish Will Come True

I knelt down, to get closer to eye level with her, her broken and bruised body covered with a blanket, her eyes wide open but as lifeless as the trees in the winter time, and where there was once a sparkle, now only a pool of tears.   Her stability in life gone, what she knew as a daily routine no longer, she would never see her father again.

The tears that swept down my cheek were not my own, but those of a man that held me tight and said thank you so much for reaching out to me, I just didn’t know what I was going to do.

Every child must be made aware
Every child must be made to care
Care enough for his fellow man
To give all the love that he can

I pray my wish will come true
For my child and your child too
See the day when men of good will
Live in peace, live in peace again

The child I knelt by we helped, the man that cried tears on my cheek we helped – perhaps not monumentally, but I feel to them it was.

Each day enjoy the people in your life, each day let them know they are loved, each day, stop taking everything little for granted.  Each day, know that somehow, you can make it a better world to live in.

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Anthony Gomes #1 Billboard Blues Guitarist

Children of Fallen Riders Presents – “Chase Away Your Winter Blues” benefiting Fallen Riders & their families in times of crisis.

Come out and join us on February 23rd, 2013 at the Sundance Event Center in Waukegan and enjoy an evening with Rough Night Out and Featuring Anthony Gomes.  Anthony has played for Children of Fallen Riders for several years and this is a guy that talks through his guitar.  He tells stories with his guitar of those old juke joints, lost loves and life like no other I have seen in a long while.

Anthony has been voted:

Billboards #1 Blues Guitarist in the Nation
#1 Blues Artist in the World on Reverbnation Global Chart
Up to Zero – Selected Best CD of 2012 from Blues.com

I had the chance at the very first Chase Away Your Winter Blues to sit down with Anthony and just talk, I have to say he is one of the kindest, compassionate people I have met.  He is very gracious when it comes to his music and to his talents.

If you haven’t heard of Anthony or Children Of Fallen Riders, come on out..and find out about us!

Children Of Fallen Riders is a not for profit 501(c)3 organization that assists families of fallen riders when they are in crisis.  We are an emergency foundation and have assisted in helping 33 children to date of several families.

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Growing Pains and Pains of Another Element

Lesson of the day – always follow up! This may sound arrogant, but I am going to thank myself here for being on top of what almost turned into a really bad weekend.

Thank you ME!

COFR was not my dream child, it was just by chance that I ended up running most of the operations that go into it. Today, not such a good one in that position.  We will be attending the International Motorcycle Show this weekend and are extremely excited about it.

Explaining what actually goes on during event preparation is beyond anything I can do right now – because the briefcase I am carrying, is filled with documents, to-do lists and not to do lists.  Daily there are things that need to be done constantly, the reason I do this is because of the need for a charity like this – after paying rent for our latest recipient and being able to give him and his family good news…that’s why. Talking with our recipients and hearing the thankfulness in their voice makes me push on.

Some days those tears just want to fly…today, I cried.

Follow up is essential, always…always, always….today I ran through my email files, my file folders, and was confirming all the things that need confirming, well, confirmed we were not! We are not on the exhibitor list, we are not on the floor plan, we are not even in their records.  THANK god I keep good records is all I have to say.

We have a wonderful company donating a Trade Show Exhibit Booth – Thank You Tradetec – You guys Rock – and we have hours of meetings behind us, we have all sorts of schwag to pass out..but we don’t have EXHIBIT SPACE.

Like HELL ! WE WILL BE THERE! Crisis has been handled – some folks out there know me, some only know part of me,  some think they know me, but when I believe in something, I take everything to heart, I want the best for this charity and will bust my proverbial nuts to get it! Some take advantage of that kindness, and some don’t listen only because I am a woman.  But when push comes to shove,  I will get it done – no matter the circumstances, no matter the time it takes.

There is a great team of volunteers that back this charity, there are also people out there that don’t understand this charity and don’t understand the time and the hours that goes into it.  They do not understand the fact that we solely function on the generosity of others, and they don’t understand the hard work that has gone into the name of this charity.  They don’t get the fact that hours and hours of work no matter how tired you are, things still need to get done.

That is how it happens, that is how you achieve your goals and as we set our goals higher,  there will be more planning, more checks and balances than ever before as we grow – I went into total panic mode and cried for a moment but in the Susie way – I made it through!

So, I thank myself that I didn’t send Joe into the convention center to set up and to receive a call that said…”wth WOMAN” !

 

 

 

 

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Christmas Cheer

There have been so many people that have come into my life through Leathers 4u and Children Of Fallen Riders.  Some you see once, some you see over & over again.  There are also some that make an impression that just lasts.  Perhaps because of a hug, a kind word, or just a silly gesture that endures them to you forever.

I posted awhile back, to send out prayers for a friend that went down.  So many answered me on facebook, and he’s okay, physically improving daily.  Mentally – I can’t speak for him, but I can imagine the anguish of not being able to keep up with bills, I myself am a worry wart, but being a “provider” for your family and having this sort of burden is well, nothing I want to fathom.

Knowing this man and his situation, we got word of his struggles and stepped in.  I sat and talked today with Michael Lack, not only was Michael a recipient, but has become so much more to Children Of Fallen Riders.  There are haters, bashes and judgmental people out there,  we hear accusations all the time and it is what happened today that makes those accusations easier to swallow – knowing what we do helps.

See all those bikes and people that rode in the rain that crappy day…. It’s because people believe, people support.  COFR is solely volunteered based, not a penny goes to any staff, and today, some of that money that has been raised has helped a family have a better Christmas.

THIS is what it’s about, the phone call I got, where a familiar voice, said…”sweetheart… I can’t thank you enough! Whatever help and support you ever need, I will be there and I will bring my brothers!”

Brothers that mean their word
Brothers & Sisters alike
A Charity That Needs to be heard
So let’s all simultaneously, rev up that bike

yeah….kinda corny.. but that’s all I got…

Join us in February for our Winter Event @ The Sundance Saloon!

Merry Christmas To Each and Everyone of You!

Susie

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COFR Receives A Gift

God does have a plan for all of us, if you asked me several years ago what his was for me, I would have had a completely different answer than I do today.

I was thrust into the biker community when I took on the Children Of Fallen Riders and I sit here today to share what it’s all about.  Leathers 4U is the home of COFR and I meet a lot of people on a daily basis.  They are clad in leather, tattooed up and down with some patches on their vest that would make ya blush.   Truth be told, they are some of the hardest working and loyal people that I have ever come across in my life.  School Teachers, Educators, Business Owners and the list goes on.

It takes a lot of emotional energy when you deal with people that have lost loved ones or are in such hardship that they can think of nothing else but where is the rent or food going to come from?  I carry much of this emotional turmoil with me every day.  COFR is bittersweet, but it’s also needed.

Starting out small and having the “biker” connotation as I have been told is why we don’t get noticed by the newspapers, Television stations or any of the bigger corporations.

By way of the Lake Cook Bravos, a group of guys that have become a big part of the Children Of Fallen Riders Family, something wonderful happens.  People do want to help, and shame on the news media to ignore us and such a wonderful happening.  These tattooed leather clad guys out there on their bikes, enjoying their hobby, yet during the day, they are school principals and teachers – educating our kids, just real people, hard workers they are.  No “connotation” there!

We received a $5,000.00 donation because they believed in our cause.  We shall just call our donor Gemma, she is a rider also and turned her bike over to her son Jeff and that was where his love of riding entered the picture.  Gemma  lost her husband in 2011, Their  adventure on bikes was one that not many could endure.  Having traveled around and ending up in New York and not particularly liking it, they set out on a 125 TOGETHER riding, in December back to Illinois.  That is a passion for riding, I don’t think there is much gear out there that would keep you warm on that journey, nor can I imagine the comfort zone of that ride.

THANK YOU LAKE COOK BRAVOS and THANK YOU GEMMA!

Matthew 10:28
And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.

 

 

 

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